' Huttondu Hanathe ' ( Birth is a lamp) kannada line speaks a lot about the meaning of BIRTH . Lamp or Diya will be an empty thing until it starts producing flame, same as that, birth of child is empty until it is given a name. Diya is filled with oil to flame the thread where as a mother feeds her breast and makes her child grow and glow.This is the first time when a person is born. Baby is just a living thing unless it is given a name, baby gets rebirth when it is named and people start calling by name. Some flames give light to wider area, while few limit their light into smaller area. It all depends on diya on how long to light and how wide to light and how much energy (oil) to use. Same as that, it depends on person how to utilise his/her energy. Based on the decision his name grows and identity changes, this is when a person is born for the second time.
Isn't it right that people change when situations change? I would say yes, we human beings are never same in all the situations, we keep on changing along with the time. We need everyone when they have everything, but we reject the same people when they lose everything they had. We say failure is the stepping stone to success but avoid people who have failures and will be in the front row to have them with us after their success. A person who had nothing will forget, the man who was standing with him, after achieving. He never thinks about pain and effort the other had taken to portray him towards success. Why do you think this change occurs? Some of them say situation manupulate and the rest say people are wrong. At last this question still remains unanswered. Yes, people change because of external force and there are people who have the mind-set of avoiding people who are failures. Please leave your comments with opinions.